If you post a selfie and it gets no likes is it still a selfie?
I got asked to design and build the interior of a new coffee shop and I want to cry. Happy tears and sad tears. Tears of OMG finally and tears of what if I fail. I hate feeling so uncertain.
September 14 2014: Daisy Lowe attends the Topshop Unique SS15 show during London Fashion Week,
Her feet…omg (I love a good nude shoe)
I have an interview at Lush tonight so I’m trying to wear blush more often…
I think that, as a larger woman, I experience things a bit differently when it comes to harassment. The words are different, the tones are different, but it’s still harassment. This is a screenshot of a Facebook friend’s status from tonight. I won’t publish her name for privacy’s sake, and we aren’t good friends anyway. But I think it’s important to see this. I forgot that this happens to other women. Sometimes when it happens to me I think it was a weird one off. Sometimes I get mad, sometimes I’m silent. But this female also gets this. It may happen differently to me, as all harassment does, but it’s still completely unacceptable…
I’ve always kind of assumed that this exact type of harassment has never happened to me. Until I read it. And then I remembered it happening. A lot. I can’t believe I’ve put those memories out of my mind. I can’t believe I’ve let it happen to me over and over without ever saying anything about it. I think in my mind I was “the fat girl that rarely got hit on and when I did it was disgusting but oh well whatever”. I can’t believe that when I started to write this that I actually thought this was an alienated experience. I’ve been programmed to think it doesn’t happen. It does. This is evidence. I can imagine what this feels like and I shouldn’t be able to. Nobody should be able to.
To anyone out there who thinks this kind of treatment of another human being is ok- fuck you. Fuck everyone in that room who saw this happening and said nothing, did nothing. If you witness harassment and don’t step up you are just as bad as the harasser. I want nothing more right now than to find this man and bring unto him my wrath. Fuck you you fucking fuck.